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“Lupus Charity Event”

Sigma Upsilon Nu supports Lupus Awareness by fund raising and getting the word out about this autoimmune disease. Please join us on Sunday, April 19th as we continue our work!

“Lupus Charity Event”
The Purple and Black Formal
Sunday April 19, 2015 6pm slt to 8pm slt
Featuring ” DJ Ghost D of GDP ”
Location: the House of ΣΥΝ Grand Ballroom
Attire: Formal Purple and Black
All proceeds go to the Lupus Foundation US and UK

To learn more about Lupus, please visit:


ΣΥΝ 2014 Lupus Awareness: Upcoming Events

May is Lupus Awareness Month.  Sigma Upsilon Nu, SL Sorority is asking everyone to “Band Together for Lupus”.  This will be our 3rd year in spreading Awareness and Raising funds for Lupus. ΣΥΝ’s fund-rasining goal is set 200,000 Lindens.  Providing awareness about Lupus is a cause near and dear to our hearts.  Stay tuned to our blog to get more information on how to donate, support and sponsor us in our goal along with more details on Lupus. If you would like to participate as a DJ or to sponsor any of our upcoming events please feel free to contact any Member of ΣΥΝ.  We hope to see you at our events.

S.u.N Lupus Upcoming events 2014

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ΣΥΝ 2014 Lupus Awareness: Support and Donation Information

ΣΥΝ 2014 Lupus Awareness: Businesses Banding Together for Lupus

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ΣΥΝ 2014 Lupus Awareness: Support and Donation Information

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2014 Lupus Awareness Foundation

 ***Supporting Lupus ~ Different ways to SUPPORT***

The Lupus Awareness Foundation group was founded to Educate ~ Support ~ Fundralse for the Lupus cause. We appreciate all the wonderful support our fundraising events generate &  all  monies raised are paid to RL Lupus charities through our giving sites.

 Want to help? 

~ There are different ways to contribute to the Lupus cause ~

SPONSORSHIP  All sponsors are included on all marketing material, posts, website and blog as well as any advertisement and interviews during the month of May.

1.  Sponsorship ~ for owners/designers, donating an item for sale in your shop as a ‘Shop For Lupus’ with a % or all lindens going to the Lupus Foundation.

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2. Sponsorship for DESIGNERS ~ Donating a One-of-A-Kind design to auction during the month of May with proceeds benefiting Lupus Foundation.

3. Become a sponsoring business, group or Greek by Donating $L1,000.00 or more for the Month of May. Go to marketplace for more information

Lupus SL Business



4.  Placing a donation/Information Kiosk at your site during the month of May.

5. Donations through our Website or in-world donation boxes.

6.  Direct donations by attending our upcoming live events in Second Life.

7. If you prefer you can donate through our giving site where 100% of donations go directly to the Lupus Foundation of America.

8. Photos:  Our Annual Lupus  pictures with donations.


For more information contact  Cleopatra Kellman on FaceBook, In-world on Second Life or send an email to sigmaupsilonnusl@gmail.com Subject Line: Lupus Awareness Month

ΣΥΝ 2014 Lupus Awareness: Businesses Banding Together For Lupus


… It is that time of year again to rally up supporters to participate and support our month long “Band Together For Lupus” campaign.

Over ten years ago, no one spoke of lupus, there was little awareness and understanding of the signs and symptoms and very little investment in research.  Approximately 1.5 million Americans have lupus – men, women and children. Lupus is an acute and chronic (lifelong) autoimmune disease in which the immune system is unbalanced, causing inflammation and tissue damage to virtually every organ system in the body. It is complex, and no two cases of lupus are the same. The money raised helps provide support services, emergency financial assistance, educational programming and funding for research to find better treatment and most importantly, a cure.

This year, it is our goal to raise L$200,000 (lindens) to fight lupus. We are asking the business owners in SL choose a sponsorship package by going to Marketplace  and help us meet (and exceed!) that goal, and give people with lupus a brighter tomorrow. 100% of your generous donation will be converted over to US Dollars and then will be donated to the Lupus Foundations of America and the UK. These donations will assist with life-saving research, education and advocacy initiatives to bring an end to lupus.

In recognition for your donation, your business logo will be displayed on all marketing material, posts, website and blogs as well as any advertisement and interviews during the month of May. We also will ask if you will display our “SL Businesses Band Together For Lupus” texture in your store, business, club,etc.

We, the Sorors of Sigma Upsilon Nu SL Sorority thank you in advance for your support.
Together we can take steps to bring hope to millions of individuals affected by lupus!


Soror Cleopatra Kellman, Founder, Sigma Upsilon Nu SL Sorority
Soror Angel McMullen, Founder, Sigma Upsilon Nu SL Sorority

Soror Moni Kessel, Founder, Sigma Upsilon Nu SL Sorority

Soror Neylaan Kytori-Jefferson, Sigma Upsilon Nu SL Sorority

Making a difference starts with one step!
FACT: Did you know that 5,000 Americans die each year from complications of lupus?

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Too “Big” for the Box – An SL Model’s Point of View

There have been many perceptions of what a “great black model” should be on this game. Some say that a black model should have a certain skin, certain shape, hair, and dress a certain way. Depending on what type of model you strive to be, this “box” may apply to you. Instead of going into what a black model is on Second Life, let me tell you what a black model is NOT:

We are not limited to just one size. Please get out of the mindset that if you can’t fit into standard sized mesh clothes, that you are not model material. Some of the best print models I have seen inworld are not what you call in “model shape”. Some of the most successful black bloggers are not confined into this “under 50 waist” shape. Also, being a “black model” in the black SL community does not mean that we have to always fit the stereotypical “thick girl” shape either. We all come in different shape and sizes in RL, so please don’t limit us in our Second Life’s. Just because a plus size avatar doesn’t fit your “fashion world”, does not mean she doesn’t fit anywhere else.

We are not available in just one flavor. We come in different shades of browns, some darker than others. Get out of your “Shadeism” mindset and see the spectrum of colors around you, and how each shade is beautiful in its own way.

We do not just look good in “African Styling” or “Urban Styling. Even in RL modeling and print ads, it seems as if black models are always used for more traditional African looks, over anything else. Don’t put us in this box!

We are not lazy, late, and not dependable. I can’t tell you how many times I have been reminded more than others about rehearsal because they felt as if my avatar’s skin color translated into me being “late” or “lazy”. Those traits are not just based on one’s skin color. I’m sure that “late” and “lazy” has no racial preference.

We don’t have to live up to the many stereotypes of our race. Often times as black models, we feel as if we have to have certain features to fit in – and others may expect us to look and act the way stereotypical black women act. This is not true. Be You and do what makes you happy!

We are not to be overlooked! Regardless of how you feel about the African American person in RL and SL, one thing is for certain – we are not going anywhere, we are beautiful, and our money/lindens spend just the same as any other avatar!

There are so many things that black models; heck even black women on SL are not, which could take all day to list. The bottom line is this:

We all come to Second Life to do something, or be something. One of the wonders of this virtual world we live in is the freedom that it gives us to simply just BE. Don’t taint the beauty of our individuality by being so small minded and putting people of different races or beliefs in a different box. As for me, I choose, and will continue to live outside of the box. Will you?

-Shelby Matfield

Miss Virtual World Ethiopia 2014


Living With and Understanding Diabates


November is National Diabetes Awareness Month.  As I sit back and reflect on the word ‘Diabetes’, I think of my grandmother, who I use to help take care of during one of her ‘Episodes’.  I didn’t understand exactly what was going on with her, and as a child, there was only so much the mind of a five year old can grasp when it comes to understanding this life threatening disease.  I remember getting up in the middle of the night always checking on her to make sure that she was ‘okay’.  That she didn’t need sugar water.  I remember going downstairs in the middle of the night to fix sugar water for her even thought I was extremely afraid of the dark but also understanding that if I didn’t make it, she could die.  I remember, as I got older and had my first child, how Diabetes had taken her legs and finally her life.  I also remember having kidney issues as a child, not understanding that at that moment, I had Type 1 Diabetes.  Having over 35 years of 1st and 2nd hand knowledge of dealing with Diabetes in my family, I was very happy to write this article to touch on the importance of Diabetes. This article will take a look at this disease.  It will review the symptoms and give you some facts on what Diabetes is and how to manage it.  It will also discuss what Diabetes is NOT.

Please note: This information is not a substitute to seeing a doctor if you have concerns.  This information is strictly to inform you of some basic facts regarding Diabetes.  This Soror stresses that you speak with your Primary Care Physician (PCP) if you have concerns or a history of Diabetes in your family.  Proper diagnosis is the first step to getting the proper treatment.

What is Diabetes?

The American Diabetes Association defines Diabetes as a group of diseases characterized by high blood glucose levels that result from defects in the body’s ability to produce and/or use insulin (American Diabetes Association, 2013).  There are 3 types of Diabetes: Type 1 or juvenile Diabetes, Type 2, and Gestational Diabetes.

Types of Diabetes

Type 1 -Diabetes is usually diagnosed in children and young adults, and was previously known as juvenile Diabetes. In type 1 Diabetes, the body does not produce insulin. 

Type 2 -Diabetes your body does not use insulin properly. This is called insulin resistance. At first, your pancreas makes extra insulin to make up for it. But, over time it isn’t able to keep up and can’t make enough insulin to keep your blood glucose at normal levels.  This is the most common form of Diabetes. 

Gestational Diabetes– Pregnant women who have never had Diabetes before but who have high blood glucose (sugar) levels during pregnancy are said to have gestational Diabetes (American Diabetes Association, 2013).

Facts about Diabetes and Complications of Diabetes

Data from the 2011 National Diabetes Fact Sheet (released Jan. 26, 2011) shows that 25.8 million children and adults in the United States—8.3% of the population—have Diabetes.  Diabetes has been diagnosed in 18.8 million people with another 7.0 million people who go undiagnosed.  79 million people are diagnosed as pre-diabetic and there were 1.9 million new cases of Diabetes are diagnosed in people aged 20 years and older in 2010.  It is more common in African American and Hispanic cultures.  If not properly controlled diabetic complications include heart disease, strokes, high blood pressure, blindness, kidney disease, and nerve damage which can lead to amputation. 

Symptoms of Diabetes

Diabetes is sometimes referred to as the silent killer.  Early detection is the best treatment in helping to get Diabetes under control and avoid the complications that come with having Diabetes.  The following symptoms of Diabetes are typical. However, some people with type 2 Diabetes have symptoms so mild that they go unnoticed (American Diabetes Associations, 2013).

Common symptoms of Diabetes:

•          Urinating often

•          Feeling very thirsty

•          Feeling very hungry – even though you are eating

•          Extreme fatigue

•          Blurry vision

•          Cuts/bruises that are slow to heal

•          Weight loss – even though you are eating more (type 1)

•          Tingling, pain, or numbness in the hands/feet (type 2)

If you are experiencing any of these symptoms or have a family history of Diabetes, do not hesitate to voice your concerns with your Primary Care Physician.  Taking this minor first step can help catch Diabetes early.

Myths about Diabetes

There are many myths about Diabetes that make it difficult for people to believe how serious Diabetes can be.  There can be no misunderstanding; Diabetes is a potentially deadly disease. These myths can create a picture of Diabetes that is not accurate and full of stereotypes and stigma.

Myth: Diabetes is not that serious of a disease.

Fact: If you manage your Diabetes properly, you can prevent or delay Diabetes complications. However, Diabetes causes more deaths a year than breast cancer and AIDS combined. Two out of three people with Diabetes die from heart disease or stroke.

Myth: If you are overweight or obese, you will eventually develop type 2 Diabetes.

Fact: Being overweight is a risk factor for developing this disease, but other risk factors such as family history, ethnicity and age also play a role. Most overweight people never develop type 2 Diabetes, and many people with type 2 Diabetes are at a normal weight or only moderately overweight.

Myth: Eating too much sugar causes Diabetes.

Fact: The answer is not so simple. Type 1 Diabetes is caused by genetics and unknown factors that trigger the onset of the disease; type 2 Diabetes is caused by genetics and lifestyle factors.

Myth: People with Diabetes should eat special diabetic foods.

Fact: A healthy meal plan for people with Diabetes is generally the same as a healthy diet for anyone – low in fat (especially saturated and trans fat), moderate in salt and sugar, with meals based on whole grain foods, vegetables and fruit.

Myth: If you have Diabetes, you should only eat small amounts of starchy foods, such as bread, potatoes and pasta.

Fact: Starchy foods can be part of a healthy meal plan, but portion size is the key. Whole grain breads, cereals, pasta, rice and starchy vegetables like potatoes, yams, peas and corn can be included in your meals and snacks.

Myth: People with Diabetes can’t eat sweets or chocolate.

Fact: If eaten as part of a healthy meal plan, or combined with exercise, sweets and desserts can be eaten by people with Diabetes.

Myth: You can catch Diabetes from someone else.

Fact: No. Although we don’t know exactly why some people develop Diabetes, we know Diabetes is not contagious. It can’t be caught like a cold or flu. 

Myth: People with Diabetes are more likely to get colds and other illnesses.

Fact: You are no more likely to get a cold or another illness if you have Diabetes. However, people with Diabetes are advised to get flu shots.

Myth: If you have type 2 Diabetes and your doctor says you need to start using insulin, it means you’re failing to take care of your Diabetes properly.

Fact: For most people, type 2 Diabetes is a progressive disease. When first diagnosed, many people with type 2 Diabetes can keep their blood glucose at a healthy level with oral medications. But over time, the body gradually produces less and less of its own insulin, and eventually oral medications may not be enough to keep blood glucose levels normal. Using insulin to get blood glucose levels to a healthy level is a good thing, not a bad one.

 Myth: Fruit is a healthy food. Therefore, it is ok to eat as much of it as you wish.

Fact: Fruit is a healthy food. It contains fiber and lots of vitamins and minerals. Because fruits contain carbohydrates, they need to be included in your meal plan. Talk to your dietitian about the amount, frequency and types of fruits you should eat.


Prevention is the best method to controlling Diabetes. You can prevent or delay the onset of type 2 Diabetes through a healthy lifestyle. Change your diet, increase your level of physical activity, maintain a healthy weight…with these positive steps, you can stay healthier longer and reduce your risk of Diabetes.

Information contained in this blog was quoted from the American Diabetes Association located online at http://www.Diabetes.org/    I invite everyone to research this site to get more complete information regarding Diabetes and what you can do to help you or a loved one deal with Diabetes and how to manage it properly.

By Soror. Diamond Khandr Meness

Sigma Upsilon Nu, SL Sorority